Mathur Devo Bhava

In our Hindu culture from childhood we are taught to respect and obey parents. We believe in MATRU DEVO BHAVA, PITRU DEVO BHAVA, ACHARYA DEVO BHAVA. Answering parents, disobeying them or talk loud at them are considered to be non acceptable in particular with traditional families. Now things aim changed and children are taught to talk freely anything to both thing to parents or teachers and question them as well as if they do not olfactory property happy with what they say. It is a scientific way of bringing up and giving space to children and giving them an opportunity to learn things with reasoning power.But this license has been proving in most of the cases being mis employ and children are becoming everywhere confident and arrogant. If a child is praised for his intelligence in front of him, our elders used to avoid it he is getting a feeling that he is on top of the world. I have assemblen a 9 years mature girl who used to stand prototypal in class did not get good m arks in Mathematics and lost her say to another kid in the class. Her perplex was questioning her and meanwhile her daddy state Sarayu, you have to put more(prenominal) focus on math. Suddenly he was snapped by the little female child Dad, I have very well that you were never first in your class.So, dont tell me how to study. Immediately mother took a long lesson to the daughter saying that she should never talk like that and Dad is not to be questioned. She explained the kid in what kind of stressful circumstances he was full-grown up and still he made his life successful so that today his daughter is studying in prestigious public direct with exclusively luxuries at home and outside. The girl offcourse learnt the lesson and realised her mistake. Similarly, today when we see children and five-year-oldsters least respecting their parents and teachers offcourse, our heart wreathes in pain.We see adolescent boys calling their Dads Hey blockheaded guy, you dont understand that or calling names their mothers and sniffy them is something very terrible. In my opinion, if that youngster may be a formal Prize winner or a highly paid administrator in a Blue chip company, but he is rightful(prenominal) a Zero in his character as he does not have basic values. To remind one and all the importance of parents, herewith I am s final stageing a nice message which I came across recently. If this changes regular slightly the behaviour of spoilt kids and youngsters, I feel that I have done a good job.It is never too late to realise our mistakes in life. MOTHER This is a truly comely piece please read this at a slow pace, digesting every word and in leisure do not hurry. this is a treasure For those lucky to still be blessed with your aim, this is beautiful. For those of us who arent, this is even more beautiful. For those who are Mother, they will neck this. The young mother do her foot on the path of life. Is this the long way? she asked. And the guide state Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the stopping point of it. But the end will be better than the beginning. But the young mother was happy, and she would not believe that anything could be better than these years. So she play with her children, and gathered flowers for them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams and the sun shone on them, and the young Mother cried, nothing will ever be lovelier than this. Then the shadow came, and the storm, and the path was dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them close and cover them with her mantle, and the children said, Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come. And the morning time came, and there was a hill ahead, and the children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children, A little patience and we are there. So the children climbed, and when they reached the top they said, Mother, we w ould not have done it without you. And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up at the stars and said, This is a better day than the last, for my children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness. Yesterday I gave them courage. Today, Ive given(p) them strength. And the next day came strange clouds which darkened the earth, clouds of war and hate and evil, and the children groped and stumbled, and the mother said Look up. Lift your eyes to the light. And the children looked and saw above the clouds an permanent glory, and it guided them beyond the darkness. And that night the Mother said, This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God. And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and the years, and the mother grew old and she was little and bent. But her children were tall-stalked and strong, and goed with courage.And when the way was rough, they lifted her, for she was as light as a plumage and at last they came to a hill, and beyond they c ould see a glitter road and golden gates flung wide. And mother said, I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end is better than the beginning, for my children can walk alone, and their children after them. And the children said, You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have foregone through the gates. And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed after her. And they said We cannot see her but she is with us still. A Mother like ours is more than a memory.She is a living presence Your Mother is always with you. Shes the susurrus of the leaves as you walk down the street shes the smell of bleach in your freshly laundered socks shes the cool hand on your brow when youre not well. Your Mother lives inside your laughter. And shes crystallized in every tear drop. Shes the place you came from, your first home and shes the map you follow with every step you take. Shes your first love and your first heartbreak, and nothing on ear th can separate you. Not time, not space not even death MAY WE neer TAKE OUR MOTHERS FOR GRANTED WHAT A WONDERFUL MESSAGE